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Responsibility
The duty to act; acknowledging choices you have made
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Having responsibility is the duty or obligation to act. Taking
responsibility is acknowledging the choices you have made, the actions you have
taken, and the results they have led to. True autonomy leads to both having
responsibility and taking responsibility. Responsibility is an essential element
of integrity, it is the congruence of what you think, what you say, and what you
do.
Definitions
- Having a duty or obligation to act
- Acknowledging the choices you have made, the actions you have taken, and
the results they have led to.
- Able to meet
commitment made to yourself and others
- Keeping the promises you make
- Doing everything you say you
will do, or have lead others to expect from you. Do what you say!
Dispersion and Focus
There is an unfortunate tendency for an individual to seek increasing
authority and focus it on themselves while dispersing responsibility throughout
an organization and avoiding it themselves. This is especially true in a typical
bureaucracy. This allows an individual to increase their power by constraining
the activities of others, while providing themselves with a way to avoid
difficult decision making and distribute blame and avoid accountability. As a
defense, to increase accountability, those that rely on performance of a
bureaucracy seek to focus responsibility and and disperse authority. [say
much more about this. consider including the bureaucrat's handbook]
Irresponsible Gambits
Many people are very skillful in disguising the responsibly they have for the
choices they make and the actions they take. Here are some of the most common
tricks.
Playing the Victim
You are playing the victim and shirking your responsibility when you are acting like you have no choice,
choosing to remain powerless, declining to
act, blaming others, or failing to see constructive alternatives. These are all
ways to "play the victim" and deny the responsibility you can take.
Blaming the Victim
Quotations:
- "We've gotten to the point where everybody's got a right and nobody's got
a responsibility" ~ Newton Minow.
- "With great power comes great responsibly" ~ Spiderman
- "With freedom comes responsibility" ~ Edward Deci
- "Responsibility—true responsibility—requires that people act autonomously
in relation to the world around, that they behave authentically on behalf of
some general good." ~ Edward Deci
References
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Fear, Sadness, Anger, Joy, Surprise, Disgust, Contempt,
Anger, Envy, Jealousy, Fright, Anxiety, Guilt, Shame, Relief, Hope, Sadness, Depression, Happiness,
Pride, Love, Gratitude, Compassion, Aesthetic Experience,
Joy, Distress, Happy-for, Sorry-for, Resentment, Gloating, Pride, Shame, Admiration, Reproach,
Love, Hate, Hope, Fear, Satisfaction, Relief, Fears-confirmed, Disappointment, Gratification,
Gratitude, Anger, Remorse,
power, dominance, status, relationships |