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Beliefs and Values
Our basis for deciding, choosing, and acting
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After interviewing 24 courageous and thoughtful men and women of conscience from
around the world, author Rush Kidder concluded that seven values are widely,
almost universally, accepted. These common values are: love (compassion),
truthfulness, fairness, freedom, unity, tolerance, responsibility, and respect
for life.
In a separate study Christopher Peterson and Katherine Dahlsgaard identified
six virtues endorsed across the thinking of many philosophers, religious
leaders, statesmen, and other ancient and modern luminaries from around the
world. These virtues are: Wisdom and knowledge, courage, love and humanity,
justice, temperance, and spirituality and transcendence. Martin Seligman uses
these as the basis for identifying signature strengths.
Perhaps you believe these values provide an excellent standard for judging
right and wrong, or good and bad. Perhaps you believe something else.
Definitions
- Values:
- A principle considered worthwhile or valuable. A standard of judgment or
appraisal.
- Belief:
- A statement, assertion, or theory you accept as true.
Myths and Misconceptions:
- I had no choice.
- He made me do it.
- That's just how I am.
- It's all my parent's fault.
- If we don't talk about it the issue will disappear.
- The past constrains the future.
My Values
My Beliefs
Here are some of my present beliefs. They are likely to change as I continue
to learn more. What do you believe? Why?
- Empathy, Ethics, and Ethical Behavior (value)
- Every human life is precious and unique and is worth living to the
fullest, here and now.
- The inherent dignity of each person
establishes basic entitlements that are the unalienable birthright of every
human.
- All of history is the quest for dignity.
- Time has value
- A complete and socially valuable code of ethics can be developed based
(entirely) on the principle of empathy.
- Creativity and innovation.
- Innovation creates value.
- Authentic Happiness,
- Congruence (value),
- Integration,
- The self
determination theory,
- Parsimony, simplicity, elegance (values)
- Meritocracy,
- Honor (value),
- Context
- Tranquility (value)
- Sobriety (value)
- Drugs, tobacco, alcohol, caffeine, and refined sugar contaminate the body
and cloud the mind.
- Responsibility (value),
- You are responsible for keeping your promises and commitments. Do what
you say!
- I am responsible for my actions. You are responsible for your actions. I
am not responsible for your actions. You are not responsible for my actions.
- With great power there must also come great responsibility.
- Authentic authority must be aligned with the corresponding
responsibility.
- Freedom of speech focuses the responsibility for what you choose to say
clearly on you.
- Autonomy is essential for responsibility.
- Justice (value),
- Decision making based on data (value)
- Clear thinking, valid logic, objective evidence, and the scientific method (value)
- A discussion that encourages inquiry and follows the fair rules of
evidence and argument, including
logic and the
scientific method, is more valuable than
fallacies,
distortions, or any other
mistake in reasoning.
- The universe becomes more fascinating and awe-inspiring the more closely
and carefully it is examined.
- Knowing yourself is an essential step toward understanding others.
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Cause and effect.
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Operational definitions are the most precise.
- The laws of physics.
- The
- The theory of evolution
- The theory of the selfish gene.
- Human universals
Professed Beliefs and Actual Beliefs
We can only determine what some else professes to believe. We can never know
what they truly believe.
References:
Shared Values for a Troubled World: Conversations With Men and Women of
Conscience, by Rushworth M. Kidder
Authentic Happiness: Using the New Positive Psychology to Realize Your
Potential for Lasting Fulfillment, by Martin Seligman |
Fear, Sadness, Anger, Joy, Surprise, Disgust, Contempt,
Anger, Envy, Jealousy, Fright, Anxiety, Guilt, Shame, Relief, Hope, Sadness, Depression, Happiness,
Pride, Love, Gratitude, Compassion, Aesthetic Experience,
Joy, Distress, Happy-for, Sorry-for, Resentment, Gloating, Pride, Shame, Admiration, Reproach,
Love, Hate, Hope, Fear, Satisfaction, Relief, Fears-confirmed, Disappointment, Gratification,
Gratitude, Anger, Remorse,
power, dominance, status, relationships |